Yes, I know my dear Kringy already wrote about this, but I want to lash out today so here goes…
I know I’m not the typical sweet subservient girly girl that guys would love to have but hey… I have qualities that guys with balls of steel would be lucky to have. I’m independent (NOT CLINGY or NEEDY), earn my own money, enjoy things that guys enjoy, smart (according to my HS IQ result), not the jealous type, and look decent (ie NOT FUGLY) with big boobs.
But apparently, I attract GWB. In HS, there was a guy who toyed with my feelings but ended up with the girl who everyone wanted for him. Another guy didn’t pursue me coz he thought I was better off with another guy. That other guy didn’t like commitments.
I pretty much kept to myself in college. Thus, nothing.
After college,…
- guy who suddenly vanished into nowhere and reappears armed with charms every now and then
- guy who got back together with his “ex” because “wala na akong magawa”
- guy who does drugs and says inappropriate things every now and then
- guy who cannot get out of his on and off relationship
- guy I dated who is in love with a girl who doesn’t love him
- guy who I dated and vanished into nowhere
- torpe guys
- long distance bf who well did a lot of things wrong, including lie about his religion and pressuring me to convert
- guys who wants to cheat with their gfs
Am I really that bad a person that I only attract assholes and GWBs? Come on!
I have a suggestion. Maybe, just maybe, you should try taming it down a bit? Just a teensy bit…blogging about it does not help either. I think all the guys you listed down here are heading to the hills instead of to your arms.
Don’t stress about it so much. they are just guys after all. mahahanap mo rin siya or better mahahanap ka rin niya.
Just ranting. LOL!
Let them be! They’re not worth it! And just be yourself. It’ll come =)
i think its the divine providence that’s acid testing you, guys are just guys, pray that you’ll find the right one and ask for guidance.. ohh boy im being spiritual now. geez! MOVE ON….
“smart (according to my HS IQ result), not the jealous type, and look decent (ie NOT FUGLY) with big boobs.”
as i was reading, this line struck me the most. yes i think shes smart(noisy but smart). looks? yes shes got the looks. big boobs? hmm ya….very nice too.
comeon iceman9 that pray and spiritual talk tsk tsk tsk
@ yechezchial
yeah you’re right! you’re entitled to your opinion! but i guess it’s the only thing i can think of.
Relaaax! Makakahanap ka rin!
@yechezchial Uhmmm… Thanks!???
@riajose dont get offended ha, what ive said above it true. “a compliment a day can make someone happy”
@ riajose
i wonder why guys shy away from you? i might be you expect to much? or you’re giving signs that guys don’t like? or you’re too perfect
too perfect to get hurt
There’s a book going around on this side of the pond called something like “women who think too much”, not that’s bad per se. Take a chill pill and call me in the morning :).
WOw. haha. Surprising and unique rant I might say. Anyway, I think one of the reasons can be because of your mindset that you only attract these kinds of people. Now, I’m not gonna talk about “The Secret”, not sure if you know it or not or you believe or not. But the fact is, what you focus on expands and you get more of what you think about.
Lighten up. Take your past as lessons and fail forward. Your prince charming will come Ria! 😀
@McBilly 😉
ria i saw your pix and i wonder if you know or have seen “youtube.com/communitychannel”. i think you can be like her here in davao. you have the looks, the brain, the body for it and you are an adorable girl. its just a thought and maybe just maybe your prince charming or “charmings” will see you.