Unlike Mommy whom we were able to surprise on her 60th birthday, we were unable to surprise Daddy. Primarily because he had his birthday parties planned weeks before his birthday. Daddy is Luis C. Bonguyan. He’s not my biological father but he is my Daddy.
Yes, I know my dear Kringy already wrote about this, but I want to lash out today so here goes…
I know I’m not the typical sweet subservient girly girl that guys would love to have but hey… I have qualities that guys with balls of steel would be lucky to have. I’m independent (NOT CLINGY or NEEDY), earn my own money, enjoy things that guys enjoy, smart (according to my HS IQ result), not the jealous type, and look decent (ie NOT FUGLY) with big boobs.
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“The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love, and be loved in return.” -Moulin Rouge
One of my favorite movies is Moulin Rouge. Partly because of the line above. Yes, to love and be loved is the greatest thing one can experience.
It is hard to love. It is a daunting thing to accept, understand, nurture, to love a person. It is difficult to choose to be with another person, to make that life a part of who you are, even if you don’t have to.
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A few days after comparing my love/relationship skills to how I play poker, I saw this music video…
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It’s one of those moments when I feel like I have to blog. There’s a big part of me that’s happy with the way things are. Work is fulfilling, business is doing well, I have friends, and men… Well, they’re raining around me. Kinda.
But there’s also a part of me, discontent with my life. Like there’s something more out there. The feeling of being un-challenged and bored is unsettling. I know I should want and aim for more, for better.
Just because I practically have everything I need, I should be happy. Thankful, yes. Content and complacent, no.
I know I can do and have better.
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A few weeks ago, we celebrated the 60th birthday of my Mommy. She’s not my biological mother, but she was the one who brought me up. I got so choked up while my cousins and I were singing her favorite song for her, and when I made the AVP, I was also almost in tears.
Here’s one of the most gracious ladies I know, Teresita Jose-Bonguyan, my Mommy. It is said that parents should give two things to their children: roots and wings. And that’s exactly what she gave me. I am where I am today because of her, and how she brought me up, with the same love and care for her 4 biological children. I can reach whatever I wanna reach because she has taught me that I can be who I want to be.
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8 hours.
It was a bad day for the two of us, but somehow we both smiled and laughed through it all. I hope your reason is same as mine. ‘Til next week. 
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Alternate Title: The Way I Play DotA and Poker is Also The Way I Love
Subtitle: P*TANG INA! SATC and Grey’s Anatomy Marathons are EEEVIL!
I’m a pretty aggressive person who does and say things when and how I want to do and say it. I curse more than the average person, and I go out and do things that my relatives aren’t proud of. In fact, they cringe at most of the things I do. One recent conversation with my relatives pointed to me as having inherited most, if not all, of the bad habits of my aunts and uncle: academic underachievement, drinking, gambling, and more. I’m a bad girl, I know.
But when it comes to love, I am no bad girl and no aggressor. I love the way I play DotA. As a DotA player, I play support most of the time. I take care of my teammates and make sure they look and perform well. And by golly, I am the same way in most relationships. I’m a nurturer. I take care of people. (SHUDDAP!) I make sure they eat on time, do things the right way, and do the things they have to accomplish. I think I was more of a mother figure to my ex, than a girlfriend. And yeah, this is the same for my past boys, boylets, flavors of the month, and such. Haller! Swerte nila, mga leche!
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Weeks ago, a good friend of mine, asked me for help with blogging. He was suddenly in the mood to write and blog about stuff going on in his life. My friend, a confidante and adviser of mine, is Peter Neil Siarot, now know by his online handle, HoboNeil.
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Opportunities like this, to stand up and be counted, are few and far in between. People often contend there isn’t really much that can be done, that what we do is futile, and do nothing to serve the country. This is our moment now, a chance to show and prove that there are more to our words and opinions, that we do not just write for the sake of writing, that we do not speak for the sake of speaking. The things we do are not done to seek attention or prove that we are better or smarter. Rather, we do it because we know we have to.
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